I was speaking to a new client the other day that was having difficulty. She lacked motivation and excitement to face her day. It took her tremendous energy just to get through the day.
You see, we humans (no disrespect to animals and aliens) are a natural goal-striving species. Goals act as natural magnets pulling us forward to face the day. They motivate us to get up after we have been knocked down. They inspire us to overcome obstacles along our path.
Sadly, most people never set goals. Those that do probably never learned how to set goals and go through the Set-Fail-Judge-Reset Cycle.
You may recognize this pattern.
SET = You set an unrealistic and uninspiring goal
FAIL = You fail to achieve this goal
JUDGE = You judge yourself harshly for not reaching your unrealistic and uninspiring goal
RESET = You set a new unrealistic and uninspiring goal and repeat the process
Goals are not required, but certainly can add purpose and passion to your life.
Goals, by themselves, do not change your life, but can certainly help you change your results.
You probably already know that Goals are a double-edged sword and can hurt you just as much as help you when you don’t know how to ‘handle’ them.
Because of this, we don’t even set goals in our programs; people have too many bad associations with them. We set something else.
To Your Millionaire!
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